So I was just going to skip this week and say something next week but I guess better now than never...
So after conversations this weekend
Things I saw from other people
And talks with the boy
Tears....probably lots of tears
Realizations and happy adventures
Shea and I have decided....
To not get married until 2014 instead of 2013.
Didn't mean to alarm any of you if you thought we were breaking up!
We would never! I LOVE this man more than life itself!
So our new date as of now is May 17th, 2014
Reasons for this is...
new job
too much stresses with planning
money (it's always about money isn't it?)
It's money in the sense of me maybe having to buy a car in the near future
And buying a house
Houses costs lots of money
And once you buy it they cost a lot more money
And we know we don't want to rent
We want to own a piece of that rare american dream
The number 1 fight between a married couple is MONEY!
And we want to be prepared!
We want to be able to get married and have money saved
Be able to buy nice furniture
Be able to start a family
Be able to take some weight off our shoulders
And not run head first into chaos
(those are what the babies are for)
We are still having our engagement party in August
We are still getting engagement pictures done in September
I will still design everything and just be on top of everything in advance
We will still reserve our spot for the venue
Everything will be ready to go out when ready and ahead of time!
I will be crazy organized!
I will LOVE it.
So, we are sad about it
And pretty much told no one about it (were that sad)
But I know we will look back at this and know we made the right decision
We just needed to get out of the wedding craze dream we were in
Think clearly and make better decisions
But, we know deep down it's the right decision
Sometimes the right decision is always the hardest decision
I just always knew the easiest decision would be to say yes to my best friend :)
Happy Wednesday <3
I'm sure that was a very hard decision to make! I'm glad you're doing what you both feel is best for you... that's what matters :)
ReplyDeleteIt was defiantly a hard decision! I think we wont fully appreciate till we look back ten years from now and know it was the right decision! But, I know this will take the stress off and make it more fun to plan! :) Thanks for commenting!
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