Wedding Wedneday!

Just had to post this because......

We put our down payment down!!

We are officially getting married at Perona Farms (aka "the barn") on May 17th, 2014 :)

 Shea signing documents!!

Me signing documents!!!

We are getting married!!!!!

Weekend Lunch

I went to my grandmother's cousin's house this weekend for a weekend lunch with my mom, aunt, and grandmother. Her house is AMAZING! It looks like it came right out of a magazine! I just wanted to stay in her backyard for hours on end.

Then, while we were driving back my aunt got lost and we ended up in Philly. But, it's okay because it was the scenic route :)

Friday's Letters

Dear Shea it's Friday!! We are both in pain because of cross fit (probably me more than you) :( back rub later.......??? Dear Cross Fit you kicked my butt royally I can't move. You know there is a problem when the elderly is walking faster than you. #crossfitproblems Dear Wedding Venue we get to put our deposit down this weekend!! Yay!!!!! Dear Future Wedding in 2014 you seem forever away but I am happy with this decision. You will be fabulous! :) Dear Babies I can't wait to hold each and every one of you this weekend :) Master feeder and Aunt I will be! Dear Friend that I haven't seen in 2 years!! I am soooooooo excited to see you Monday!!!! Ahhhh! You made my week :) Dear Bloggers sorry for all the :) I am in a good mood today! Dear Next Week lets bring some happy fantastic news! Dear Shea I love you more and more everyday! Can't wait to see the gift you got me!

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40 Fingers And 40 Toes Are Home!!

All 4 babies are home now :)

It's exciting

It's scary

It's overwhelming

It's tiring

It's a headache

It's wonderful

It's just how I like it :)

Miss Chloe Ann

Miss Avery Kaelin 

 Big Sister Lizzie holding Chloe

 Mommy to the 4 quads, a 13 year old, and a 19 month old ....
I present....the amazing Cassie

Wedding Wednesdays....discontinued for now

So I was just going to skip this week and say something next week but I guess better now than never...

So after conversations this weekend

Things I saw from other people

And talks with the boy

Tears....probably lots of tears

Realizations and happy adventures

Shea and I have decided....

To not get married until 2014 instead of 2013.

Didn't mean to alarm any of you if you thought we were breaking up!

We would never! I LOVE this man more than life itself!

So our new date as of now is May 17th, 2014

Reasons for this is...

new job

too much stresses with planning

money (it's always about money isn't it?)

It's money in the sense of me maybe having to buy a car in the near future

And buying a house

Houses costs lots of money

And once you buy it they cost a lot more money

And we know we don't want to rent

We want to own a piece of that rare american dream

The number 1 fight between a married couple is MONEY!

And we want to be prepared!

We want to be able to get married and have money saved

Be able to buy nice furniture

Be able to start a family

Be able to take some weight off our shoulders

And not run head first into chaos

(those are what the babies are for)

We are still having our engagement party in August

We are still getting engagement pictures done in September

I will still design everything and just be on top of everything in advance

We will still reserve our spot for the venue

Everything will be ready to go out when ready and ahead of time!

I will be crazy organized!

I will LOVE it.

So, we are sad about it

And pretty much told no one about it (were that sad)

But I know we will look back at this and know we made the right decision

We just needed to get out of the wedding craze dream we were in

Think clearly and make better decisions

But, we know deep down it's the right decision

Sometimes the right decision is always the hardest decision

I just always knew the easiest decision would be to say yes to my best friend :)

Happy Wednesday <3

A Thank You To Our Troops

Wow these last couple days have been insane...

lack of sleep

crazy people

big decisions

happy phone calls

new adventures

But, all and all I forgot it was Monday yesterday with all the craziness!

But, all I wanted to say is thank you to all our troops out there!

I could never do what you guys do and I appreciate you continuing to keep our country safe!

And to all the army wives out there! You are amazingly (yea its a word) strong people!

And to say I am sooooo excited for Shea's cousin to come home for leave

from Afghaniland (as he calls it) in just 8 days!

Were going to have a blast when he's home and I know Shea is soo soo excited to see him!!

This might be a light week as I comprehend all the changes of the last couple days...

I will just post pictures of adorable babies and fiances.

They are not crazy

They are sweet and make me smile :)

It's the start of summer

Time for BBQs and poolside and fresh starts

Happy Tuesday :)

Friday's Letters

Dear Shea I am excited for you to come into the city today!! You hardly ever do and I love having a buddy to take the train with! Dear Photographers I am soooo excited to meet you after work! I hope we click instantly and can start planning our engagement shoot! Dear Stevie we will be here for you always! That's why I love my family! No matter what we have each other's back! :) Dear Xavier and Bailey you both are adorable and such great babies! I am so glad that you are home and healthy! Dear Chloe and Avery you are coming home in about 3 days and then we will have even more chaos! But, I am so excited for you to come home! Dear Shirt get used to having baby spit up on you. This will be a crash course in babies! Dear Formula you are the worst smelling stuff in the world!! OMG how do babies eat this stuff??!! Dear Shea maybe we should rethink the whole having children thing.....we might be sick of it already? We already have 8 nieces and nephews!!

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